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How To Not Be Nervous During Your First Escort Meetup?

April 21, 2021
Discreets Team

So you’ve finally moved through a decision. After days—maybe even weeks or months—of contemplating, you’ve thought things through and gained the courage to cross the point of no return. You visited a website, arranged everything, and in a couple of days (or hours), you’re ready to meet and fuck the beautiful vixen of your dreams.

Meeting up with an escort is something that’s existed for centuries yet is still frowned upon by society. And with all the thoughts that are running through your mind right now, we can’t really blame you if you have butterflies on your stomach at the mere thought of meeting your very first playmate. Let us guide you through your feelings and give you some valuable tips to help you relax and put you in the mood!

The Lowdown on First-Time Jitters

Can’t quite put the finger on why you’re feeling anxious? Here are some of the common reasons guys get nervous before the big night.

Performance Issues

There’s nothing more frustrating in the world than not being able to perform well. It’s a common issue for most men, and the fear of not having endurance and stamina can crush a man’s confidence. While it’s not really a deal-breaker for most escorts, guys see it as a big deal if they can’t get their pecker to peak when needed.

Ditching or “Ghosting”

It’s utterly frustrating (and not to mention traumatic) when an escort you’ve booked from a casual sex site cancels at the last minute, especially when you’ve already made plans for the entire session! And it goes both ways. If you cancel your escort, it will appear unprofessional since they could have used that allotted schedule to accommodate a different client.

Ditching or “Ghosting”

While it is an escort’s job to give you a good time for all your money’s worth, some guys are worried that they might lose focus when doing the deed. It may be because they find it hard to connect with their escorts—especially when they feel shy or uncomfortable—which will cause loss of interest or drive during intercourse.

Sure-fire strategies to calm your nerves

Learn to combat your first-time fears and become a stud in the bed by manifesting these valuable tips.

Accept it! – this is the first step!

The perfect way to cope with your nerves is to admit to yourself what you’re feeling. Allow yourself to be anxious. Remind yourself that it’s okay to be nervous as everyone experiences it too—even the pros!

Communication is the key to making things more fluid with you and your escort. Remember that it’s their job to make you feel good and help you become comfortable. Be honest with them about how you’re feeling since they know what to do to make this experience enjoyable for a first-timer like you.

Sit, BREATHE, and be in CONTROL!

When it’s just a couple of hours before your escort arrives, and that anxiety suddenly sets in, drop everything and sit still! Take a slow deep breath, and as you exhale, imagine as if ALL those feelings of anxiety and worry will also leave your body.

Practicing mindfulness or meditation helps a great deal too. If you have a smartphone with you, download an app for it. It totally works!

Don’t WORRY, be HORNY!

As you make a conscious decision of booking an escort online for some casual encounters, always remind yourself that it’s okay to feel anxious. After all, it’s your first time!

Just don’t forget that the session is about yourself and your needs. It’s the exact reason you’re hiring an escort and not doing it with a fuck buddy in the first place—no involvement of feelings.

As you become more experienced in meeting escorts, you’ll be amazed at how you’re able to manage your anxiety better. It allows you to establish better connections and experiences with the escorts you play with.

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